tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post6766071966895209822..comments2024-03-26T09:16:47.120+00:00Comments on Cathy Cassidy: Dreamcatcher : MANDA: IT'S OK TO BE QUIET!cathy cassidyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13822936830624272677noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-83977630308946243492016-03-22T12:26:35.627+00:002016-03-22T12:26:35.627+00:00im probably both. I can be loud when im in a comfo...im probably both. I can be loud when im in a comfortable situation like with my bffs but meeting new people im shy and nervous and queit. I dont see this as a problem.Its who i am.butterflyrainbownoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-88179805367626355772016-03-20T13:55:39.963+00:002016-03-20T13:55:39.963+00:00I'm an introvert and it always annoyed me when...I'm an introvert and it always annoyed me when people tried to push me to socialise more, to speak up, to meet new people and spend less time alone. Did they ever consider that I'm alone because I like to be alone? I'm not closing myself off or hiding away, I'm simply taking some time to breathe and relax, away from the pressure of social situations. I am happy to spend time with friends and family but they have to understand that that's not ALL I have to do. Humans aren't one size fits all - just because being extroverted is seen as confidence and introverted seen as low self esteem doesn't mean that's true for everyone. I was actually more extroverted during my more self conscious stages because I was desperately seeking validation that I was funny and interesting and wanted. If I'm more introverted, it's a good sign I'm feeling good and stable in myself. Why change that? It's a good thing!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12688575236166949747noreply@blogger.com