tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post5273139941974032629..comments2024-03-28T18:56:35.608+00:00Comments on Cathy Cassidy: Dreamcatcher : THE BIG DEBATE: STANDING OUT OR BLENDING IN?cathy cassidyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13822936830624272677noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-57263678362497800682014-09-09T17:47:40.742+01:002014-09-09T17:47:40.742+01:00Me too! Hamdi:)xxxMe too! Hamdi:)xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-77608780838566708822014-08-25T14:44:40.158+01:002014-08-25T14:44:40.158+01:00ur style sounds amazing lucy! I love converse too,...ur style sounds amazing lucy! I love converse too, I literall wear them everyday! Hamdi:)xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-52805960497738018352014-08-25T14:43:33.221+01:002014-08-25T14:43:33.221+01:00I think a girl should do whats comfortable for her...I think a girl should do whats comfortable for her and should make her own decision. If thats standing out or blending in it should not matter. I also agree with Blue, someone may seem like their 'confident' coz there standing out but thats defs not always the case. I think that everyone should respect people for what they are and who they want to be and not judge them coz its there choice not anyone else's. Hamdi:)XxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-22514855417879572022014-07-31T10:29:44.877+01:002014-07-31T10:29:44.877+01:00I was really a blend into the background type of g...I was really a blend into the background type of girl when I was young I wasn't talking to a lot o people and it was really hard for me to make friends. But over the years all the people in my life have changed me and made me a better person. I like to stand out and I became a social butterfly! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-70548235017785113192014-07-28T22:17:52.632+01:002014-07-28T22:17:52.632+01:00stand out! i dont think many people have very lon...stand out! i dont think many people have very long and thick hair that's blonde with huge red streaks, do they? and the streaks are NATURAL. i was born red and then it went blonde. lots of trends are cool, though. i love looms and converse like everyone else, but i have a different kind of high tops which i think is cool because i have never seen anyone else wearing MY shoes. i love colourful skinny jeans too. i have red ones at the moment. but hey, my sister has stripy ones! they are really cool! lucyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-83256950058129961212014-07-28T14:20:08.107+01:002014-07-28T14:20:08.107+01:00I prefer to blend in, in a way, since I get embarr...I prefer to blend in, in a way, since I get embarrassed being the centre of attention as I am very shy. However, I like having a unique personality and am proud of the fact that I don't always follow trends - whether that's fashion, music, slang, behaviour... in that way, I prefer being different, because who wants to be the same? I like that I can be different and unique without being cast out, the centre of attention, or under pressure from othersEleanorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12983230515542580865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-15720231453809081792014-07-28T13:39:33.695+01:002014-07-28T13:39:33.695+01:00I agree with Verity mostly, my behaviour depends o...I agree with Verity mostly, my behaviour depends on who I'm with. When I'm with close friends I'm totally crazy and talkative, yet in class I'm quieter (although this can depend on the teacher). Fenellanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-15233340191147029442014-07-28T10:52:30.702+01:002014-07-28T10:52:30.702+01:00Stand- out!!!! That's only just ME, YOU are di...Stand- out!!!! That's only just ME, YOU are different. Emma :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7627535531432337588.post-56978807888484758322014-07-28T10:30:35.115+01:002014-07-28T10:30:35.115+01:00Sometimes I'm not sure where I lie in the stic...Sometimes I'm not sure where I lie in the sticking out world. In my school, all the people who stand out just seem to be rude children who mess about in class and have the highest negative record in the year group. To them that's cool. I have always been the shy girl who never talks in class. I had no bad record and the popular people never really paid attention to me. I honestly like blending in. I feel safer from the bullies and not so upfront with the world. But now that I'm really getting recognition for my writing and singing, it gets harder and harder to stay hidden. People around school recognise me and ask me stuff and it feels really good to be known but now that I seem to be getting popular, I feel like I can't stay under cover all the time anymore. Sure being invisible keeps you safe from bullies but not having your voice heard is like trapping yourself in a cage. You can't be free. I think that standing out comes in all different shapes and sizes and you have to decide in yourself how you start breaking out and how far you go with it.Deborah Akinsulirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07199492583482960008noreply@blogger.com